Ok first shall begin off with a few back round details.
I am 25, fiance is 30. Been friends for 7 years, in a relationship for 2 and live together 5 days out of ten due to current work circumstances (transferring to a different area)
My choice in life has come down to:
Choice one - get married and have the baby the way we are right now “long distance” and hope he has the ability to get moved here sooner than later. ( him giving up his life to come here full time ) will probably all be within 2 years.
Choice two - me move to him and put off the marriage and babies until we can come back home and let him pursue his career where he’s at the moment. ( me giving up my life and moving to him temporarily ) will most likely not be home for another 2 years, so maybe not even start baby trying for 3 years.

I feel choice two is obviously far less hasty, but im not sure how long i want to leave it until we’ve babies, we want two and both before i am 30, and i am so broody already i dont know if i can wait 3/4 years for a baby. But once i make my decision i have to stick to it. Cannot get pregnant there, not an option as want to be near our family.
Truly struggling with what to do.

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choice two because at least this way you will still be together. im sure you can still get married during this time even if not having a baby. once you move back you can talk about having a baby. i know its hard having to wait but trust me its worth the wait, and you’ll have more time with your partner to spend alone and have holidays and build your careers until then. youre still young and im sure you will have a baby before 30, but if its not the right time then dont push it or rush into something until you’re both 100% ready and sure because it can be difficult otherwise. if you opted for choice one he wouldnt be around much to support you and see his baby grow up which would be sad for you all, having a baby is a time where you should be content in your life and happy as a family then it will all come together naturally when the time is right trust me youll be happy looking back in the next few years being glad you waited. good luck.
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I concur with B. I got married at 27 and wanted to have my first at least by 30, but life happens and I didn't conceive until I was 32. This baby will be worth the wait and so will yours! Good luck!
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Option two is the best. If he is a good man he will be happier having a family with you when he has the ability to be there. I have the ability to not imagine he will want to miss out on all the first time daddy stuff by being away five out of ten days.

If you have kids while waiting for him to be able to move it's not going to be a real family until he gets there anyway. If you move to him this will give you both a few years to build a foundation for your entire future and family.

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sometimes in life u have to make sacrifices. Go and live with him, start your family. Ur family will come visit you more often once u have kids. I moved closer to my fiance's work because i selected a career in childcare and there are childcare centres everywhere. I got a great job at a centre a few minutes drive from the house we purchased over a year ago. I love it and it is the ideal decision i have ever made. =)

Everything usually works out for the best in the end. Do what u feel is the ideal for you and your fiance.

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I state option one. With my experience, I always wanted a family, and to be married, I used to watch 7th Heaven and dream that that would one day be me and my husband. I did get my son, but it didn't turn out like I wanted it to. With this next baby, I’m sure that things are going to work out fine, as I got pregnant after I had been trying for years. But, if his career isn’t taking off where he is, I think a change of cities might do him some good. He may find him a job where you are at, and it may be better than anticipated. I have seen a lot of people come and go, and people die at a young age and I thought they never had the opportunity to live their lives and do at least most of the things they wanted to. That's why I try to make everything I do special and make sure it is something I want. If a family and marriage is what you truly want, go for it. Either one you select is going to have consequences and obstacles, so why not choose what makes you happy.